General Feelings and Behaviors

There is a saying that you should always trust your instincts. If you feel or think that you are being cheated on there is a pretty good chance that you are. Whenever you start to develop those kind of feelings its because your significant other is sending those messages through their subconscious minds.

Another dead giveaway with all cheaters is they start to look at the mirror a lot more and ask questions about their appearance, for example: "Can you tell I'm losing weight?" They will start acting like teenagers obsessed with the way they look.

It does not matter how they used to dress before, there will be a major change in wardrobe. They will start to wear things that fit the style of the new person that they are seeing. It does not matter if it's dressing up or possibly dressing down from a suit to a pair of new-style slacks and shirt.

At the end of the day what you are looking for is changes that all cheaters make with their subconscious minds, and those changes, even the best cheaters go through, and they can't hide them.

Dress And Appearance

Today we will discuss the changes in your significant others appearance and the clothing.

There are several changes that your partner will go through when getting involved with a new person. They may think they are not leaving any signs of changes but they cannot control what their subconscious mind does. Knowing some of these tips may give you a better chance of finding out if you are being cheated on.




Whenever your mate meets somebody that they want to have an affair or one night stand with, they will always start to want to feel better about themselves and be more attractive. You will notice that they are a lot more meticulous about their appearance and will start to dress differently.


Lets start with lingerie. Your spouse or girlfriend will start wearing the nicest or sexiest bras and panties she owns or you may notice her buying a lot of new ones that normally she wouldn't wear for you. He may all of a sudden start wearing briefs or boxers that are not the norm for him.



Basically what you are looking for is a change that is out of the normal behavior in their dress habits, and if there is one then, that's a clue you should look further into.

Cheaters' Phone Behaviors

There is one thing all cheaters have in common. They all need to communicate with their cheating mates. While this may be easy while at work using work phones it becomes a lot more complicated after hours. You will notice that that your mate will not leave their phone unattended, always in their possesssion and checking for texts and messages regularly.

If you ever check their phone you will notice that all their text activity has been deleted and no messages are saved which means that they have deleted all contents so that there is no evidence left behind of their activities.

Then there is the name changes. If you look through their phones you will notice that they will store their cheating mate under a different name of the same sex as them and write next to it a title as if it's a work buddy. Example: Your man might get a message from what appears to be Kevin asking if he wants to play golf this Saturday and it's a code for something else. Another thing may occur where they will change the passwords on their phones and their accounts so you cannot have access to them.

If you notice any of these behaviors, there's a pretty good chance that you're being cheated on. Stay tuned for further articles; I promise it'll be worth your while!