The different excuses they tell

You would be amazed at some of the excuses cheaters will use to try to hide their affairs. One of the most used is that their spouse is not romantic enough or they are not as sexual as they would like them to be. But if they were to spend as much energy in their present relationship as they do in their affairs that problem would probably go away.


Just because they leave the house dressed in a certain way does not mean that they will be dressed that way the whole day. On several occasions men and women will have a different set of clothes with them in their car or office so they can use it right before their encounters. For example; a woman might take in her purse a sexy set of lingerie or a short dress, etc. A man may keep an extra shirt shirt in his car or office so that when he goes to see his cheating mate he can look better and will change before he goes home so that there is no marking of lipstick or smell of their lover's perfume.


If you look closely you will notice that after an encounter they will be nervous and avoid any kinds of conversation with you. One of their excuses might be I have a headache or I am tired and want to go to sleep so they can hide their emotions and feelings so you don't catch on to their difference in behavior.

Guilty Conscience

One of the main reasons the behavior of your cheating mate changes is their guilty conscience. It does not matter how they feel about the affair they are having. The one thing they cannot control is their subconscious mind and the guilt that causes all the signs to show in the first place.

Although it might be hard for you to believe - but yes even cheaters have a conscience and they do feel guilty about what they are doing. Generally cheaters are very aware that what they are doing is wrong, and that they have the potential to cause much pain to all involved. If you mention that you have a friend at work who is having an affair or you saw someone in a situation where there is cheating involved, you will notice a big change in their behavior at that time. They will become nervous and try to avoid the conversation altogether.

That is one way to shake them up and see how nervous they get. By doing that you should be able to get a clearer picture of what they are doing. Remember this is only one area you will cover with this method. Check our site regularly for all the different ideas we provide.

Change in mood and attitude

Today's article is going to be in regards to simple changes in your mate's normal everyday behaviors. There are several behaviors that your mate subconsciously will go through and if you know what to look for you will be right there to pick up on all the signals sent.

One of the main things cheaters need to do is make time for their encounters or to call their mates which will cause them to start doing things they never used to do. You will hear a great deal of excuses of things they need to do that which they never had to do before.

All of a sudden they start using the excuse of having to run to the store to buy something, or they will be running a lot of errands that normally they wouldn't. That will give them time to call or see their mates. Another thing you will notice is, their attitude towards you changes, like you might say or do something that normally would bother them and now all of the sudden it does not phase them in the least bit.

Stay tuned we will discuss dress and appearance next.

A Cheater's Car

Today we are going to discuss a very interesting matter in regards to a cheater's car. This is where all cheaters leave a world of evidence and hardly ever expect that their significant other would ever look to see if they are being cheated on. The reason being is once they are in their cars they feel like they are in their safe zone and get very careless.

While if you look at their car everything may appear to be normal but is it?

Lets take a closer look, a very simple thing to check is the mileage on a car. If they told you that they went to work and came back home and you know that work is five miles away and there is sixty miles added to the car a red flag should go up.

Then you can leave the passenger seat in a certain awkward position and when they come home and you see that the seat has been adjusted to a different setting there is a pretty good chance that someone was sitting in the car that was not supposed to.

If you take a closer look at the carpet of the car you may find a bunch of hair that does not belong to you. You would be amazed how many hairs you will find between the seats and on the back seat and carpet area. Then there is always the smell of perfume left behind in the car you would be amazed at how long the smell of perfume stays in a car after that person left.

Those are just a few of the evidences left behind by your cheating mates. We will have further discussions on this subject as well as several other subjects so stay tuned.

Cheaters' Phone Behaviors

There is one thing all cheaters have in common. They all need to communicate with their cheating mates. While this may be easy while at work using work phones it becomes a lot more complicated after hours. You will notice that that your mate will not leave their phone unattended, always in their possesssion and checking for texts and messages regularly.

If you ever check their phone you will notice that all their text activity has been deleted and no messages are saved which means that they have deleted all contents so that there is no evidence left behind of their activities.

Then there is the name changes. If you look through their phones you will notice that they will store their cheating mate under a different name of the same sex as them and write next to it a title as if it's a work buddy. Example: Your man might get a message from what appears to be Kevin asking if he wants to play golf this Saturday and it's a code for something else. Another thing may occur where they will change the passwords on their phones and their accounts so you cannot have access to them.

If you notice any of these behaviors, there's a pretty good chance that you're being cheated on. Stay tuned for further articles; I promise it'll be worth your while!