Why Do People Cheat?

Why do people cheat? That is the one question that if you ask a thousand cheaters you would probably get a thousand different excuses. Notice I said excuses, not reasons; that is because they never want to put the blame on themselves. According to them, its always somebody else's fault.

The one thing a cheater cannot control is his or her behavior after an encounter with their cheating mate. Especially if they were with them right before they went home. You will notice that they cannot look at you or they avoid eye contact. They may go straight to the shower to wash off any evidence.

They may try to isolate themselves by acting like they are checking their email, or read the newspaper, or anything of that nature so that they don't have to participate or engage in a conversation with you. This is a way for them to hide the guilt they are feeling for what they have done.

Dress And Appearance

Today we will discuss the changes in your significant others appearance and the clothing.

There are several changes that your partner will go through when getting involved with a new person. They may think they are not leaving any signs of changes but they cannot control what their subconscious mind does. Knowing some of these tips may give you a better chance of finding out if you are being cheated on.




Whenever your mate meets somebody that they want to have an affair or one night stand with, they will always start to want to feel better about themselves and be more attractive. You will notice that they are a lot more meticulous about their appearance and will start to dress differently.


Lets start with lingerie. Your spouse or girlfriend will start wearing the nicest or sexiest bras and panties she owns or you may notice her buying a lot of new ones that normally she wouldn't wear for you. He may all of a sudden start wearing briefs or boxers that are not the norm for him.



Basically what you are looking for is a change that is out of the normal behavior in their dress habits, and if there is one then, that's a clue you should look further into.

A Cheater's Car

Today we are going to discuss a very interesting matter in regards to a cheater's car. This is where all cheaters leave a world of evidence and hardly ever expect that their significant other would ever look to see if they are being cheated on. The reason being is once they are in their cars they feel like they are in their safe zone and get very careless.

While if you look at their car everything may appear to be normal but is it?

Lets take a closer look, a very simple thing to check is the mileage on a car. If they told you that they went to work and came back home and you know that work is five miles away and there is sixty miles added to the car a red flag should go up.

Then you can leave the passenger seat in a certain awkward position and when they come home and you see that the seat has been adjusted to a different setting there is a pretty good chance that someone was sitting in the car that was not supposed to.

If you take a closer look at the carpet of the car you may find a bunch of hair that does not belong to you. You would be amazed how many hairs you will find between the seats and on the back seat and carpet area. Then there is always the smell of perfume left behind in the car you would be amazed at how long the smell of perfume stays in a car after that person left.

Those are just a few of the evidences left behind by your cheating mates. We will have further discussions on this subject as well as several other subjects so stay tuned.

Cheaters' Phone Behaviors

There is one thing all cheaters have in common. They all need to communicate with their cheating mates. While this may be easy while at work using work phones it becomes a lot more complicated after hours. You will notice that that your mate will not leave their phone unattended, always in their possesssion and checking for texts and messages regularly.

If you ever check their phone you will notice that all their text activity has been deleted and no messages are saved which means that they have deleted all contents so that there is no evidence left behind of their activities.

Then there is the name changes. If you look through their phones you will notice that they will store their cheating mate under a different name of the same sex as them and write next to it a title as if it's a work buddy. Example: Your man might get a message from what appears to be Kevin asking if he wants to play golf this Saturday and it's a code for something else. Another thing may occur where they will change the passwords on their phones and their accounts so you cannot have access to them.

If you notice any of these behaviors, there's a pretty good chance that you're being cheated on. Stay tuned for further articles; I promise it'll be worth your while!